To Live with a Consciousness That Has Graduated from Shifting Blame (Part 2)

​　Previous article in this series

[blogcard url=”https://en.ascension21.com/voice-of-brothers-319/”]

 

(Continued from last time)

★Prayer is a powerful energy that guides people in a good direction

But many people are so busy with their own lives that they often don’t have enough room in their hearts to care about those around them.

In the end, whatever anyone does, the responsibility for those words and deeds lies with that person, and those around them can’t change another person’s destiny from the root. But people nearby can quietly point the way and guide someone to change their words and deeds by their own will, can’t they?

And that guidance isn’t only words and actions conveyed directly to the other person.

Simply praying for them in silence also creates a climate in which it’s easier for them to change their heart. It is a powerful act that helps them from behind the scenes.

Prayer is a powerful energy that guides people in a good direction, and in that area, it’s the home field of you with your deep love—a field where you truly shine.

Sometimes, because they haven’t realized the importance of prayer, people snap at you—”What good does praying do? What nonsense are you talking?”—or, even if they don’t go that far, show a no-thank-you attitude. That’s because on Earth prayer is still considered to belong to the unscientific. Once the science of the Deities used on the stars of the universe is introduced on Earth too, the day will come when such skeptical views are dispelled.

So you don’t need to worry about what such people say, nor, on the other hand, do you need to loudly push the way you believe in onto others.

The time will come when everyone knows the fact that prayer is originally an extremely scientific power that spreads and shares divinity.

Because within the vibration of true prayer, the light of life actually interweaves and crosses there, and a harmonious destiny environment unfolds with the one who prays at its center.

Let us say just one thing here: true prayer is selfless prayer with no room at all for self-interest to slip in, so please don’t get that part wrong.

★What makes the heart unhealthy

Also, in a different case from the abuse we talked about earlier, there are many parents who aren’t abusive, but say, “My child won’t listen to me, and I don’t know what to do.”

There too, the parents’ behavior can be broadly divided into two kinds.

Parents who are fed up with their child’s words and actions, or stuck in sadness or anger, and deal with their child without the room to understand what the child really wants; and parents who create an atmosphere in which it’s easy for the child to voice their dissatisfaction and side of the story, skillfully draw out their true feelings, and guide things to be handled well.

For example, domestic violence occurs in something like one household out of every few dozen, doesn’t it?

That’s because there are children who can only release their pent-up feelings in that form. When their own child behaves like that, parents either deal with them strictly, approach them gently, or shrink back, overwhelmed by helplessness.

In such cases, if only the parents can listen carefully to the child’s side of the story early on, the cause that started it all often turns out to be something that seems so trivial you think, “That’s all it was?”

If they just let the child get it all out, the child will give some reason: “I just can’t stand my brother’s such-and-such anymore,” or “I’m sick of Mom always saying such-and-such.”

What they have in common is that they skipped the process of telling the person they felt that way about how they felt and trying to communicate.

Because of a belief within themselves along the lines of, “Even if I talk, there’s no way they’ll accept it anyway.”

In such cases, just as the parents are troubled while having skipped the process of drawing out the child’s true feelings, the child, for their part, was just causing trouble and acting out after skipping the process of trying to communicate. (To be continued next time)