The True Meaning of Men and Women Living Together, Seen from a Spiritual Perspective (7/7)

(Continued from last time)

★All an individual needs to do is integrate and harmonize the inner masculine and feminine

Enough of that repetition, don’t you think?

There is surely someone of the opposite sex who is just right for you.

It may be your present partner, or it may be someone else.

Those who don’t have such a person now can surely meet them from here on, as long as they set their inner self in order.

And if that person is someone other than your present partner, the thing to be careful about is not to rush into changing partners.

Because a real meeting comes naturally once your inner self is in order, and before you know it, your world changes.

And worries of that kind are really a one-person wrestling match that arises when you’ve forgotten the essence of your own life, aren’t they?

What matters is always to bring your consciousness to the source of life and live with complete faith that everything will surely get better.

That means believing that your essence is the light of life and living as exactly that, so nothing but bright thoughts come from it.

As long as you live that way, you will surely meet and live with someone with whom you can achieve a true partnership.

We’ll say it again: that may be the person right in front of you, or it may be some stranger under the same sky.

Either way, as long as you live believing in your own life, the Guardian Spirits on both sides will coordinate well with each other and carry things along so that it happens.

Behind living with faith in your own life, that kind of work is quietly moving in the background.

While we’re at it: if you want the other person to change, first change yourself.

As you’ll understand if you read our previous talk, changing yourself is the very first thing you must do, and trying to change the other person is, fundamentally, wasted effort.

Because anything changed by force always brings a backlash, and people are beings for whom nothing takes hold unless they move by their own conviction.

In daily married life, too, as long as you keep polishing yourself from that standpoint, if the other person is truly your real partner, they will surely be transformed into someone who behaves ideally.

Because what you felt about the other person was inside you, and you were only feeling what was inside you as it was reflected in them.

So if you truly and deeply change on your side, eventually even the other person’s words and actions will change, and if the other person isn’t your true partner, things will naturally move toward parting.

It really does change, so remarkably it’s almost funny, so try putting it into practice.

Nagging and complaining (grumbling and dissatisfaction) rarely help make a relationship better.

Because in the end, it comes back to you.

To sum up this talk: when you evolve your consciousness, the plus and minus within you (masculinity and femininity) are integrated, the bond that lets you meet the other half of your soul existing outside you ripens, and you can actually meet and enter the final finishing touches of your soul.

As long as you don’t forget that, you’ll be fine.

You will surely meet the other half of your soul, and once you meet, your integration with each other will move forward and you’ll experience a state of deeper evolution of consciousness.

Looking forward to that time, first work on harmonizing your own yin and yang.

Because that time will surely come. (The end)